Perhaps the most important life choice you make will be the partner you choose. You’ll likely want the most attractive, the best character and disposition to live with and wake up to. In order to find your attractive best mate you’ll need to play a top-notch game to maximize your choices. You need high self-esteem to believe you deserve a 9 or 10 rate female of the species.

If you suffer from low-self esteem you’ll feel you don’t deserve the best and not try for the exceptional. If you’re game isn’t up to par, you’ll have difficulty even with the 7’s.

If you’re too slick you’ll get shot down as a sleeze bag. Be careful not to go too over the top and earn a creepy tag by overly bragging or being nerdy technical or overly aggressive getting into someone’s personal space without building on the primary attraction blocks first.

You need to build attraction first before moving on. Skipping the primary give and take banter by stepping on the throttle will get you banned. Being assertive and uptight and not relaxed will get anyone on edge as well as being physically invasive on first contact.

By laying back not being pushy, being cool you get the attraction mojo establishing in her mind that you are of a higher perceived value, that she as more to gain from you than you from her.

Like in any marketing effort, the object has to be desirable. In this case it’s you. It’s important to women – damn important – that they are after a prize catch, not a wuss or a bag of hot air. If you have a full head of hair, tall, good looking, good build that’s great.

To live up to a prize catch, you have to show leadership. No attractive woman wants a doormat type of guy always seeking her approval. You need to take a strong lead and decide where to go, when to go, how to go … and so on. On the dance floor you follow the beat only you can hear and do your own thing, she can follow it or not. And so with life. In all aspects of life you need to project yourself as the captain of the ship. Certain areas you can delegate, but you be the dance leader.

Have ideas and suggestions. Don’t be always asking, "where do you want to go? What do you want to do? You decide, it’s your choice." Take the power ball and don’t pass it back to the woman. You decide and suggest.