Whining is a call to feel sorry for yourself. Little boys do it. Men shouldn't.

No one likes to hear others whine and women especially don't want to hear grown men whine. It's a big turn  off, an unattractive downer.

Whining shows no responsibility for you actions. If it's a trait that graps hold of you at times,you have to become completely intolerant  of that mode of expression.

Sever contact with anyone who on a continual basis whines. Don't associate with them. Find other to hang with. This stuff rubs off and you don't want to get infected. If you suffer of it, cure yourself. Pull the switch. Shut it off.

It's all over the media, in music, in print — you get saturated with this  dribble. But shut it off and listen to things that lend themselves to learning new things, developing new skills and other areas of successful endeavor.

It's important in building your attractive character to stay away from the whine, not the wine.

"Keeping your body healthy is an expression of gratitude to the whole cosmos - the trees, the clouds, everything."
–Thich Nhat Hanh

Attraction is all or nothing. Either you know how to create it or you're dead. We pull all the stops so you learn it well.